Dear Ex Boyfriend,

Dear Ex Boyfriend,

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"Comfortable" by John Mayer

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"Comfortable" by John Mayer

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"my ex and i broke up 4 months ago a month later became friends and became on again off agAin then decided to just be friends the whole summer we were friends except for a few arguments and flirting tonight he started talking about sexual things and romantic things about it bothered me and he said that we needed to stop talking because we both needed to move on and he was tired of hurting me i know its for the best but im so sad and im scared not talk to him even as just friends advice?"

from Anonymous

I know what I am about to say is not what you want to hear. I also know that you most likely won’t listen to it because I would not have. But, just know that I have been where you are and I know that it’s not easy (you’ve read my blog)…

He’s right. You have to stop talking and completely remove yourself from the situation. And when I say completely, I mean 100% no contact. When you feel like talking to him, express those feelings through an outlet like a blog, somewhere where you feel safe. That’s how this page came along…challenge yourself to keep this resolution because in the end you will be able to heal. Just remember it is painful, extremely painful, and it takes time.

All my love. 

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"My ex just broke up with me and I want him back. You said you were off and on with yours. How did you guys get back together? Like what did you do? Ex the no contact rule etc"

from Anonymous

He would always chase back after me. But when he didn’t, I found him. Sometimes, which I have learned the hard way, it’s best not to get back together. Because sometimes it’s just not supposed to be. This is one of the hardest lessons that I have ever learned. 

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"Do you mind me asking how long you were with Michael? And how long did it take to move on from him completely?"

from Anonymous

I was with Michael, on and off, for roughly 12 years. I haven’t spoken to him since last April. I don’t think that I will ever move on from him completely, he will always be a part of me…yes, I would like to forget him altogether and would if that were a possibility. I say this only because I truly believe I will never have a love like him again. 

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Is it, really?

Is it, really?

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There’s a lot to be said for being alone. But you and I know, don’t we…that being alone and being lonely are not at all the same thing?

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