Dear Ex Boyfriend,

Dear Ex Boyfriend,

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"…from which they never recovered."

"…from which they never recovered."

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because you were my Gatsby…

because you were my Gatsby…

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"This is way out of my comfort zone but.. I was looking over your page and I need some advice. Me & this guy have been on and off for about four years. We go through stages of avoiding each other but we always end up back together. He recently told me things didn't feel right only for me to find out he was back talking to his ex. I just don't understand how he could tell me he loved me and then drop me so quick so many times over and over. Like what do I do?"

from Anonymous

I am always here for advice and I am glad that you stepped out of your comfort zone-I know how hard that is. This is a tricky situation because everyone and every relationship is different. When I went through this with Michael, after ten years, he picked someone else. Then came back to me. We had gone back and forth like this for so long that I eventually had to standup for me and decide that it was best for me to move on. At some point it became unhealthy and it took years to get over, but it was the right decision. Stand up for yourself, do not let anyone take advantage of you, or play games with you and your heart. You deserve more than that. Trust me. 

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At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life.

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Here’s to you…

Here’s to you…

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I get jealous and have a short temper and I get quite clingy. But I promise no one will ever love you like me.

Showing my crazy.

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"Comfortable" by John Mayer

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"Comfortable" by John Mayer

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"my ex and i broke up 4 months ago a month later became friends and became on again off agAin then decided to just be friends the whole summer we were friends except for a few arguments and flirting tonight he started talking about sexual things and romantic things about it bothered me and he said that we needed to stop talking because we both needed to move on and he was tired of hurting me i know its for the best but im so sad and im scared not talk to him even as just friends advice?"

from Anonymous

I know what I am about to say is not what you want to hear. I also know that you most likely won’t listen to it because I would not have. But, just know that I have been where you are and I know that it’s not easy (you’ve read my blog)…

He’s right. You have to stop talking and completely remove yourself from the situation. And when I say completely, I mean 100% no contact. When you feel like talking to him, express those feelings through an outlet like a blog, somewhere where you feel safe. That’s how this page came along…challenge yourself to keep this resolution because in the end you will be able to heal. Just remember it is painful, extremely painful, and it takes time.

All my love.